Author Archives for Sue Hawkes

You Need a Break #1318 

Published on March 13, 2024 Written by

Changing behavior is challenging.   When your habits have led you to success in various forms as a direct result of those habits, they’re doubly hard to break.  When I think of being productive, it’s in my nature to use as many minutes of my waking hours as possible to create results.  This leads me to… View Article

Will You Give the Feedback? #1317 

Published on March 12, 2024 Written by

If you’ve heard the saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder,” you might apply it to being away from your loved ones and teammates as your longing for them increases while you’re away. However, there are situations where this phrase does not always apply.  When you’re absent, physically, mentally, or emotionally from teammates at work,… View Article

A Simple Question #1316 

Published on March 11, 2024 Written by

“What can I help you with?”  What a great question. It opens the door to learning, partnership, and collaboration.   Many years ago, when I was in a state of overwhelm, I called a friend to talk and in the process of doing so I broke down in tears. She patiently listened and when I finished… View Article

Transitional Clarity #1315 

Published on March 8, 2024 Written by

Transitions.  They’re challenging. Transitions require you to let go while you are also fumbling to embrace the emerging space of what’s next at the same time.   Transitions are neither here nor there. Both places are uncertain.  One is about completion, one is about possibility; and either way, you don’t know for sure.  Like the acrobat… View Article

Learning Curves #1314 

Published on March 7, 2024 Written by

I have a love-hate relationship with new technology.  Prior to purchase, I look forward to it and the results of what it enables are seductive and motivating. If I find a deal online, it moves me to act. Whether I contemplate for a minute or a month, I am excited to be more efficient and… View Article

Your Lists #1313 

Published on March 6, 2024 Written by

When you have the gift of time, with no schedule and nothing pressing you to get ready, what do you do? For me, my mind can race with possibilities. I feel an urgency to do the things that I’ve been procrastinating, to be active and exercise, to cook and hang art, change the décor of… View Article

The Unexpected #1312 

Published on March 5, 2024 Written by

Curve balls. They happen. It’s when the stuff you couldn’t imagine or wouldn’t know was coming shows up and interrupts the previously scheduled plans you’ve had.   They happen in small ways every day. If you’re over-scheduled, there’s no room for them and they result in anxiety, stress, and broken promises. There’s a simple fix for… View Article

Ditch the Stress #1311 

Published on March 4, 2024 Written by

Are you experiencing stress right now? Is it more than your usual amount?  Have you tried all the self-care options you can? If not, try some.  Have you talked with friends, family and anyone who’ll listen, and you feel a bit better, but it’s only a short while?   Did that bottle of wine help, until… View Article

Just Say It #1310 

Published on March 1, 2024 Written by

Have you ever struggled to begin something or try something new? Me too.   And the journey to the starting line can feel like a marathon if you stay trapped between your ears.  One solution for this … tell someone.  Yup. It’s that simple.   When “just do it” seems like too great a leap, tell a… View Article

Your Six #1309 

Published on February 29, 2024 Written by

You are the total of the six people you spend the majority of your time with. If you haven’t heard this phrase, consider it.  As I consider my own life, it absolutely influences my habitual behavior. We all need a cast of characters who support and uplift us, challenge us, care enough to be honest,… View Article

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